Sometimes mistakes can yield surprising results. This morning I was half asleep when I prepared my mug of coffee. I reached into the refrigerator, on autopilot, took out the cranberry juice instead of the milk, and poured it into my coffee. Shaking my head at my distracted state, I put the juice back into the refrigerator, pulled out the milk and maple syrup, my usual condiments for coffee, and added the usual amounts. The coffee was lovely, the fruity hint was very pleasant.
After a series of sunny mild days, today began with cloud cover, which dissipated over the course of the morning to bring us back to another sunny day. It is cooler than it has been, but still well above freezing.
Having spent the last few days cleaning Iris, other projects beckon. The curtains in Iris need tie backs, so it is time to get out the fabric scrap tote and rummage around for something nice, in yellow, because the formica table top is yellow, and because yellow is bright. I like bright.
The list of things needed from the fabric store is getting longer. Curtain clips are needed for the new dining area curtains, which are currently functional but hanging in a decidedly bizarre manner. Decorative binding is needed for the sleeve ends on my 23 year old parka, the edges are now fraying, I’ve left it too long.
It is time to get back out there for my daily walks, an activity that was suspended while cleaning Iris the trailer. It is wonderful to enjoy watching the birds enjoy themselves.
Last January Attila applied for a different job where he works, and this morning he was interviewed. Next there will be a battery of tests to pass, then who knows, there is no timeline on the process. The outcome is merely interesting, as things are fine just the way they are, no changes are necessary to enjoy life.
Next week wraps up some of the volunteer work I have been involved with for the last eight months. It has been challenging, interesting, and low profile. If I said more about it, the low profile aspect to it would be spoiled. I value the low profile aspect of the work. I was very happy to have the opportunity to be involved with it, as it tapped some of my talents, that have gone unused since I left the academy.
The Rideau Camp
I have been thinking about the wealth that our Rideau Camp has brought into our lives. Attila and I both value time alone in the bush, we both find it soothing and rejuvenating. At the Rideau Camp there are just the two of us, and although we touch base with each other frequently, most of our time is spent on solitary activities that allow us to be completely alone in the forest. There is nothing quite like being alone with yourself in the bush, and since we own the land, there are no other people to interrupt the peacefulness of it. Our spirits are much calmer for having such a haven. It is a Waldeny experience, if one needs to ground it in a literary sense.
The Rideau Camp is unlike the country house, which was in the bush, our Rideau Camp has no buildings to maintain, nor are the neighbours near enough to be seen, although occasionally they are heard. We need only enjoy our Rideau Camp, much as Attila and I enjoyed the bush when we were children.
Preparing Iris for a stay at the Rideau Camp is fun, and a much smaller project than owning a cottage in the country, particularly one that needs to be heated all winter. This winter Iris will be all tucked up in the yard at Mist Cottage, sitting quietly without needing attention until next spring. But I am getting ahead of myself here, we are still looking forward to Iris’ maiden voyage.
Our old windows are covered by old curtains, sort of. The living room hosts the curtains left by the previous owners at the country house when we bought it. I recently shortened them to fit the living room windows, and they will do nicely until we replace the windows. The front bedroom hosted heavily lined blackout curtains, that were custom made for the family room in the huge home I owned with my first husband. They are incredibly well made, almost 40 years old and every bit as nice as they were the day they were made, but not quite so stylish now as they were then. The back bedroom curtains are inexpensive, bright and light, cotton dollar store shower curtains, which I like very much. Attila sleeps during the day in the back bedroom, so the nice and light aspect wasn’t really working in there. I decided to hang the blackout curtains in the room where Attila sleeps during the day, and the bright light shower curtains in the front bedroom where they would let in the morning sun. Attila moved the heavy boxes blocking the windows out of my way and I was off to the races. An hour later the curtains had been switched, and we now have a more functional living space.
We have reached a plateau in our renovation and purging. We really cannot move forward until the garden shed is repaired and made functional. The basement and the garage are in a state of semi-chaos, waiting for the garden shed to open up more storage space. when the dust has settled after the garden shed is updated, which may take the whole summer/fall season, we will have to decide what project we want to work on next.
I keep thinking that I need to get working again on my genealogy book. The devil is in the details, and there are oodles of details. It took a very long time to find a way to prepare for print, the images related to just one person, My Great Aunt Mary Ann.
Currently I am working on preparing a timeline table of my Great Great Grandfather’s life, and the life of my Great Great Great Uncle, so that I can demonstrate why I theorize they are one and the same person, and to emphasize why I cannot definitively state that they are same person. This fellow is a lot of work, and none of the four or five other researchers in my family line have found any documents to pin down who he was. The female researchers are much more open to the possibility that he was the same man, while the male researchers are a lot more reluctant to entertain thoughts that he may have been, since that would mean he was a bigamist. I tend to think I am right about him being the same man, because Great Great Grandpa surrounded his existence with mystery, no documents exist to tell us about where he came from, who his parents were, where he died, or where he was buried. If I were a bigamist that is exactly the approach I would take. The family story told to generations is that he was murdered for his money, but even that story is fraught with conflicting evidence in the records. I have the data collated for this table, but fitting it onto a printed page is taking some time. After that the table is ready for print, the discussion about it needs to be cohesively written.
That is just two people out of the hundreds that will be described in the book. They are the most controversial though, it will be easier going when Great Great Grandfather Alexander, and his daughter Mary Ann have been dealt with to my satisfaction.
And then of course there are the references, which are formatted in a higgledy piggledy way, using different conventions. This will not do, I am trying to rewrite them as I go along, but there are hundreds and hundreds of them to deal with, and this will take time.
I tend to work on this difficult beginning to the book in short spurts, taking long breaks to think about the approach I am taking, and to search for data that may have been missed.
Date: 10:00 AM EDT Thursday 21 April 2016
Condition: Mostly Cloudy
Pressure: 101.7 kPa
Visibility: 24 km
Wind: SE 7 km/h
“There were many selfish people about these days, people who seemed not to care if they scraped the cars of others or bumped into people while waking on the street. Mma Ramotswe knew that this was what happened when towns became bigger and people became strangers to one another; she knew too that this was a consequence of increasing prosperity, which, curiously enough, just seemed to bring out greed and selfishness.
Life was far better, though Mma Ramotswe, if we knew who we were. In the days when she was a schoolgirl in the Mooched the village in which she had been born, everybody had known exactly who you were, and they often knew exactly who your parents, and your parents’ parents, had been…”
The No. 1 Detective Agency Series, Book 6, The Company of Cheerful Ladies
Alexander McCall Smith
There is such a contrast between your work in the bush (primarily alone), and your work on genealogy (all those people from the past), that it will be interesting to see how you balance the two (three counting Mist Cottage!) projects. You are obviously comfortable with multi-tasking!
I hadn’t looked at the projects quite like that before Diane! I find that the change is as good as a rest, that after spending time intensely engaged with one project, it is refreshing to divert my attention to an equally intense alternative project.
My good friend Patrick Logier once described me, that would be over 25 years ago, as a woman with a rainbow of obsessions. I guess I haven’t changed much over the years.
You have such a plethora of skills … I admire your attention to detail when it comes to dealing with things like the camper vent and other practical repair jobs. Wish I had half your ambition. And your knowledge of genealogy and how to go about it … how I wish I had one iota of that! It’s so fascinating to find out anything about the people whose DNA you carry and the people they knew and loved, isn’t it? And amazing how many there were!
DH and I experiment with fruity hints on purpose, periodically. We like to do our own versions of things like cherry Cokes, pineapple and/or coconut in Fresca, fruit juices in teas, etc. New combinations can be very refreshing.
We’re currently waiting to hear when our window replacements will be scheduled. We expect it to be sometime in the next 3 weeks or so. Our front window will be changing from 3 fixed panes (a bay flanked by two half-sized fixed panels) to a center fixed pane with flanking double hung windows. We’re excited that we’ll be able to open the upper portion of the double hung windows, both to let out excess heat this summer and let in fresh air. Opening them at the top will prevent the dogs from putting an errant nail through the window screens when they’re standing on the sills to look at passersby.
Regarding your quote, DH and I have tried masterfully to avoid selfish people. Fortunately, the only time we actually seem to come upon them is in specific grocery stores or at certain times on Sundays and nowhere else, thank goodness. Since DH and I are both smiling, “sorry” Canadians that wait for others to pass by, we become anxious and distressed when we come upon those who are brash, rashly pushing their carts about and jockeying for position both in the aisles and at checkouts.
Thank goodness those times are few. We’ve been lucky to find that for the most part people in this area are kind and considerate of others.
Teri, the double hung windows sound perfect for keeping your house cool and for allowing the dogs stress free views of the street. Not ever having owned a dog, I hadn’t thought about the windows from the angle of a dog owner, it is a great way to accommodate the reality of dog personalities.
When we run into rude people in the grocery store, which has been twice since we moved here, both times it has been a well dressed, thirty something female who uses all available space to load their cart at a double counter checkout, making us stand waiting to get by, at the cash register, for a long period of time. We could not determine if it was just plain piggishness, or if the two women were being passive aggressive. The cashiers rolled her eyes both times, so they must have had to deal with that behaviour before. That isn’t much of a tale of woe when it comes to rude people in public, we count ourselves lucky.
Kate, thanks for the kind words. The genealogy skills grew slowly, I began in 1993 trying to figure out who my Granny’s parents were, and was getting nowhere fast. A humble beginning. I was lucky to find a book about the pioneers and families that settled in a township in the Parry Sound District of Ontario, it was written by a distant cousin, who I did not know was a distant cousin at the time I purchased the book from her. The book arrivedin the mail and I couldn’t figure out just which Robinson family was my line. I was so frustrated that I started at the beginning of the book and transcribed the entire book into my database. Then I began visiting the library to use the microfiche to transcribe the entire 1871 Census for the Parry Sound District. All this took a few years, but when I was done I had a sound foundation of knowledge about the European settlers in the Parry Sound District, and just who I was related to. I’ve never looked back, and have traced my maternal Grandparent’s lines of ancestors back to England, Scotland, and ireland. I have pretty much exhausted the online records as sources of information, but continue to search in the off chance that I have missed something. Scotlandspeople offers pay as you go databases, so when I have a windfall I pay and go as far as I can, then wait for the next windfall. Searching unindexed parish records is extremely time consuming and expensive. The census is a wonderful resource, but in Scotland it did not begin until 1841, my Scottish ancestors boarded the boat for Canada in 1820.
I don’t research my father’s side of the family because my cousin Carole has spent her lifetime doing that, and has done an incredible job tracing our family line back to the first European settlers in the Niagara region of Ontario. I have been urging Carole to publish a book, but so far she has only put together a a book for her Mother, my Aunt. I haven’t seen it, but by all accounts it is a wonderful piece of work.
Ancestry is s treasure trove of data, but it is very expensive.
The most incredible (to me) statement you wrote above was that you have never owned (or been owned by?) a dog. I cannot imagine an entire lifetime without a dog in it. It’s just beyond my scope of understanding. But don’t forget, I’m still in deep grief mode from losing our Kip, so I’m not thinking rationally lately. All I want is HIM BACK! Yes, windows down to the floor are a dog’s best friend. That’s why we have full length storm window doors and I keep the interior doors open during the days – for dogs to sit there and look out. Today the window on the front storm door is “up” (with a screen) to let in in the spring air…
I grew up on a working farm Bex, animals were considered other, we ate them. I don’t distinguish between dogs and other animals, I love animals, but not pigs who tried to kill us, and I am not a big meat eater. We had animals on the farm, including a few dogs, who were not part of the family. With a few exceptions. We had a dog when we first moved to the farm, when I was three years old, and he was the kindest, gentlest being in our universe. All of the children loved that dog, as much as we loved one another. To this day I miss that dog, who disappeared from our lives when I was still quite young. I was always fond of the cats around the farm, but some of their deaths were so tragic that eventually I tried to avoid bonding with them because of the deep sense of loss.
I hear you about wanting Kip back, it is a testament to a dog’s life well lived.